Comments on: Test Drive and Marriage? http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/ Our Journey Begins....Together Sat, 30 Jul 2011 20:36:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Poonam http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-8419 Poonam Sat, 11 Mar 2006 01:38:36 +0000 http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/archives/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-8419 Very good point <strong>Vikas</strong>. Thanks for commenting. I totally agree. :yes: :smile: Very good point Vikas. Thanks for commenting. I totally agree. :yes: :smile:

]]> By: Vikas http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-8417 Vikas Fri, 10 Mar 2006 06:29:53 +0000 http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/archives/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-8417 So the deal is, There are a number of aspects of marriage, of course a lot more than having sex. Having a test-drive to check compatibility, an absurd idea! If someone immensely enjoy having sex with a pros, why doesn't that person marry that pros? The scene is almost similar here. <blockquote>Marriage requires compatibility of hearts, and that compatibility gives rise to love and sensuous feeling about the spouse in your mind(or heart, whatever u call it...) and finding someone compatible in sex is all the result of your thoughts about that person, be those thoughts are related to sex, or any other facet of life.</blockquote> You cannot marry a person if he/she is too much of an overkill for your daily life needs, even if he/she is great in the bed. So the deal is,
There are a number of aspects of marriage, of course a lot more than having sex. Having a test-drive to check compatibility, an absurd idea!
If someone immensely enjoy having sex with a pros, why doesn’t that person marry that pros? The scene is almost similar here.

Marriage requires compatibility of hearts, and that compatibility gives rise to love and sensuous feeling about the spouse in your mind(or heart, whatever u call it…) and finding someone compatible in sex is all the result of your thoughts about that person, be those thoughts are related to sex, or any other facet of life.

You cannot marry a person if he/she is too much of an overkill for your daily life needs, even if he/she is great in the bed.

]]> By: Poonam http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6558 Poonam Thu, 19 May 2005 03:28:35 +0000 http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/archives/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6558 Very true <strong>Kunal</strong>. Many teenagers don't know what love is. :smile: Which last line do you like, mine or Marilyn's?? :mrgreen: Definitely agree <strong>Mona</strong>. :smile: Well said! :yes: No one can save Mallika Sherawat <strong>Prasad</strong>, not even God. :smile: If she <em>ever</em> becomes the Women Ambassador for India...I will consider myself to be from Nepal. :mrgreen: I think you have more character <strong>Prasad</strong> and for that reason only you deserve a much better girlfriend than Mallika will <em>ever</em> be. :smile: Yup totally agree <strong>Indu</strong>. :smile: That's an interesting Tamilian movie on a very bold topic. Seems that it provides a very good message. :smile: I agree <strong>Mannat</strong>. I am also against sex before marriage. :yes: Just like live-in relationships, sex before marriage is something else that i really don't understand. :no: Why take the risk and why not just get married? :roll: Agree with you totally. :smile: I know what you mean <strong>Kaush</strong>. :smile: Intimacy is only part of the relationship, not the whole relationship. Good point. :smile: Very true Kunal. Many teenagers don’t know what love is. :smile: Which last line do you like, mine or Marilyn’s?? :mrgreen:

Definitely agree Mona. :smile: Well said! :yes:

No one can save Mallika Sherawat Prasad, not even God. :smile: If she ever becomes the Women Ambassador for India…I will consider myself to be from Nepal. :mrgreen: I think you have more character Prasad and for that reason only you deserve a much better girlfriend than Mallika will ever be. :smile:

Yup totally agree Indu. :smile: That’s an interesting Tamilian movie on a very bold topic. Seems that it provides a very good message. :smile:

I agree Mannat. I am also against sex before marriage. :yes: Just like live-in relationships, sex before marriage is something else that i really don’t understand. :no: Why take the risk and why not just get married? :roll: Agree with you totally. :smile:

I know what you mean Kaush. :smile: Intimacy is only part of the relationship, not the whole relationship. Good point. :smile:

]]> By: kaush http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6556 kaush Thu, 19 May 2005 01:34:35 +0000 http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/archives/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6556 Totally agreed! I mean sex without love is only lust and ONLY lust has no reason to be in a marriage, and if there is love, the compatibility will come automatic> And anyways, where there is love, sex or no sex shouldnt matter. I mean it is necessary for procreation, but you get what I mean... Totally agreed! I mean sex without love is only lust and ONLY lust has no reason to be in a marriage, and if there is love, the compatibility will come automatic> And anyways, where there is love, sex or no sex shouldnt matter. I mean it is necessary for procreation, but you get what I mean…

]]> By: mannat http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6555 mannat Wed, 18 May 2005 19:58:41 +0000 http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/archives/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6555 Well said, Marilyn! Love is all about emotions and sex comes really down the lane. You need to know the person inside out before u even thinking about sex. I might be conservative on this issue, but I totally oppose sex before marriage. We need to follow the chronology in life of doing right things at right time. Well said, Marilyn!
Love is all about emotions and sex comes really down the lane. You need to know the person inside out before u even thinking about sex. I might be conservative on this issue, but I totally oppose sex before marriage. We need to follow the chronology in life of doing right things at right time.

]]> By: Indu http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6554 Indu Wed, 18 May 2005 17:41:05 +0000 http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/archives/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6554 :rotfl: I loved this post..it reflects what I strongly belive in...I am not against pre marital sex or anything but u must be sure that this is the guy / gal we are gonna end up marrying..otherwise it doesnt make a difference between animals and us humans...u can reserve it till the end do...i remember watching a tamil movie based on this subject...it was a very good movie..the movie was all about the gal having problems in her sexual drive and how she dares to do some life altering operation....but not 100% sure if she will survive that operation...but the hero of that movie finally comes fighting all odds and let her know that he loves her and not for the pleasure she is going to provide...i may not put it the rigt way..but physical intimacy is just the second best next to emotional intimacy of a couple.. and yeah!ofcourse love making and sex are like two different entities all together...first one any two non related human beings can up into and the latter one is among the people who are emotionally tied too... :rotfl: I loved this post..it reflects what I strongly belive in…I am not against pre marital sex or anything but u must be sure that this is the guy / gal we are gonna end up marrying..otherwise it doesnt make a difference between animals and us humans…u can reserve it till the end do…i remember watching a tamil movie based on this subject…it was a very good movie..the movie was all about the gal having problems in her sexual drive and how she dares to do some life altering operation….but not 100% sure if she will survive that operation…but the hero of that movie finally comes fighting all odds and let her know that he loves her and not for the pleasure she is going to provide…i may not put it the rigt way..but physical intimacy is just the second best next to emotional intimacy of a couple..

and yeah!ofcourse love making and sex are like two different entities all together…first one any two non related human beings can up into and the latter one is among the people who are emotionally tied too…

]]> By: Prasad http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6552 Prasad Wed, 18 May 2005 14:45:05 +0000 http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/archives/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6552 Haa... this is a qn which most of Indian ppl won't agree (I think so... cos things have changed alot here too)... I agree with u Poonam.. its all got to do with our love not lust.... having sex is jus lust but making love is with feelings... I would surely reserve that after marriage.. But if my girlfriend is Mallika sherawat :hyper: then, would have to reverse my decision.... :lol: Poonam did u check her photos in Cannes with Jackie Chan, if u've seen.. then u know why am telling u this.. :smile: God only can save her..... Haa… this is a qn which most of Indian ppl won’t agree (I think so… cos things have changed alot here too)…
I agree with u Poonam.. its all got to do with our love not lust…. having sex is jus lust but making love is with feelings…

I would surely reserve that after marriage.. But if my girlfriend is Mallika sherawat :hyper: then, would have to reverse my decision…. :lol:
Poonam did u check her photos in Cannes with Jackie Chan, if u’ve seen.. then u know why am telling u this.. :smile:
God only can save her…..

]]> By: Mona http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6551 Mona Wed, 18 May 2005 09:15:34 +0000 http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/archives/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6551 Totally agree ... having sex and making love are different things ... When you do making love, your feeling involved ... Making love can be done with someone whom you love. Making love is a very big decision and I believe if you do it after getting married, you will appreciate it more .... :) Totally agree … having sex and making love are different things … When you do making love, your feeling involved …
Making love can be done with someone whom you love.

Making love is a very big decision and I believe if you do it after getting married, you will appreciate it more …. :)

]]> By: Kunal http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6550 Kunal Wed, 18 May 2005 06:15:50 +0000 http://www.neerajpoonam.com/wp/archives/2005/05/17/test-drive-and-marriage/#comment-6550 lol ! a good post ! and a good reply... i agree with marilyn whoever she is... do half (or more then that) of the teenagers even know what love is? its just sex for them all the way... i wonder if after tooo much testing they would actually enjoy it with the one they want to settle down... i specially like the last line :P cheers ! lol !

a good post ! and a good reply… i agree with marilyn whoever she is…

do half (or more then that) of the teenagers even know what love is? its just sex for them all the way… i wonder if after tooo much testing they would actually enjoy it with the one they want to settle down…

i specially like the last line :P

cheers !

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